Wednesday, June 24, 2015

The contract

For quite sometime now I have known that I get really exited pleasing my girlfriend in the bedroom.  It is actually quite clear to me that pleasing her gives me a much greater thrill and excitement than the opposite of her pleasing me. (Even thought she is really god at it)

Recently I have started talking to my girlfriend about these things and the other night when we were lying in bed I told her how sexy I think it is when she is in command. I told her that I like when she has all the power and tells me what to do. 

With a smile she then answered me:

“Hmm, that’s good, so that means I get to decide what you should do outside of the bedroom as well. Then tomorrow at 06:30 I would like to have breakfast served in bed, a boiled egg, some toasted wholemeal bred, maybe some orange juice, and….”

This was not at all what I had expected. Even though I don’t think she was really serious suddenly it lit a spark in me. I thought to my self, if she said that she wants breakfast in bed in the morning then I’m going to bring it to her.

The next morning I got up early to serve her breakfast, which I watched her enjoy. During the day I thought about it and came to the conclusion that I felt there was something erotic about the whole thing, she telling me what to do and I having to obey.  There was something there that I could not really grasp, but the thought of shifting power in our relationship seemed very appealing and thrilling, I wanted here to sternly tell me what to do again and me having to serve her.

I wanted to know what our relationship would be like if she had all the control and thought about how to create such a scenario.

That’s when I came up with the contract.

For 1 week I would have to do everything she told me to, inside and outside of the bedroom, all with the purpose of pleasing her. She would be empowered to use me with the only limits of her own imagination. I would be completely under her command.

She read the contract and agreed.






4 comments:

  1. What did the contract say, specifically? What were the results? Where do you hope it will lead?

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  2. Lady Grey

    The Contract was not really a formal document, more inspiration on my part regarding what kind of services my girlfriend could demand from me during this week. Basically aim towards changing the power balance in our relationship, psychologically placing her above me.

    General services:

    • Foot rub/Foot bath/massage (Any time she’d please. In bed, while watching TV, reading a book or however she’d like it.)
    • Shaving of her legs or genital area (If to her liking)
    • Servicing her while in the shower, putting on lotion afterwards (if to her liking)
    • Painting her toenails (If to her liking)

    Services around the apartment:

    • Breakfast in bed every morning (If to her liking)
    • Cleaning any part of the apartment she’d command.
    • Preparing and servicing here with anything she’d like to eat drink (tea, wine, dinner, etc.)
    • Doing the laundry whenever she’d order me.

    Sexual pleasuring:

    • Satisfying her needs whenever/however she’d like without demanding anything in return.

    These were just my suggestions and I added that her imagination would set the boundaries for this “game”. She would call the shots, her will would be my command and I would have to obey. She would be able to dispose of all my free time with the exceptions of me being able to continue my working out schedule to keep in shape.

    I would also have the liberty to write a blog about this.


    My aim with the week is to change the power balance in our relationship. My girlfriend is generally very kind and caring and I want to give here the opportunity to explore another side of her where she gets to be demanding and spoiled, without having to show gratitude. I find the thought of her selfisly in charge very sexy and arousing and I want to experience the feeling of her bossing me around.


    The outcome of the week will be posted.

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    1. Good start for a contract. However, I think you should add that Heléne should be allowed to punish you if you fail to do as your told or don’t perform to her satisfaction. That should make it more fun for both of you and keep you more on your toes.

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  3. This seems like a very good start. It's always tricky when a sub is trying to "lure" his potential Dom into a mindset that has her experiencing things she's probably never experienced before. As you write:

    "My aim with the week is to change the power balance in our relationship. My girlfriend is generally very kind and caring and I want to give here the opportunity to explore another side of her where she gets to be demanding and spoiled, without having to show gratitude. I find the thought of her selfisly in charge very sexy and arousing and I want to experience the feeling of her bossing me around."

    I believe you'll find that the part about her having to show no gratitude is perhaps the most difficult of all. I'm sure her natural mode is to say "please" and "thank you". Be patient - it often takes awhile before a vanilla woman can accept that you want to be ordered around and that you don't want or need "pleases" and "thank yous". Quite the opposite, as a matter of fact. I wish you good luck.

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